Okay, listen up. This may come as shock to some of you, but not everyone actually likes staying with their parents, you know? We actually want to leave their pace and live off by ourselves to start our own independent lives. Thankfully, that is actually really common in America, seeing as when their kid turns eighteen, they are actually required to leave the house and live by themselves. Then it is time for them to find some homes for sale in Daphne AL.
Here is the thing. There are parents who are decent and are really humble they love their kids and once they realize their part as parents have long since run its course, they leave them alone to figure things out for themselves. They will not likely ask anything for their kid and if their kid actually gives them something form their job, they will undoubtedly be happy and grateful.
Then there are those who expect too much. Those who, as soon as their daughter or son starts a job and has their paychecks already, they would ask for a percentage and demand it because they are supposedly the PARENTS and they have the right. Uh, wrong. That is not how parenting goes.
If you are the latter, then is it really a wonder your kid hates you? We will not be surprised if they would want to leave your house as soon as they turn eighteen. And then never want to talk to you ever again, regardless of your role in their life. The proper way of being a dad and a mom to that is being supportive no matter what the kid does.
If they give you a share of their money, then be grateful and accept it. Love them because, to be honest, they probably have a crappy job and yet they still thought of sharing it with you. Do NOT demand them their paycheck. It is THEIR money, they worked for it and it was their own bodies that stressed over for it.
Your job as their guide and parent has long since due and you should really just back off. You will still be there and be their parents but there is a time where you need to let go. They will want a house of their own and a life that does not have you in it. That is not so bad. It just means they want to be independent.
You should be proud instead of sticking to them and being clingy. What, do you expect to still live with them even when they have a family and children of their own? Maybe they would rather not have you in it, huh? It sucks and it definitely is a hard thing to swallow, but that is life.
If they tell you that they want to look for a house so they can live in because they are all grown up, then why not help them? do you really just want you, child, to find a shady place accidentally because you were too bitter to find the time to look for one yourself?
Help them out on it. So they do not end up in a house that is way too close to suspicious places. That tends to happen.
